Write the obituary you'd like to receive.

Humm..Asian do not really have obituary. Maybe they do but not in my family, I have not encountered anyone with one in my childhood and now. Perhaps the best obituary is none at all because we can be like nature and the universe. We flow with no mark, no intentions, no force...no memories, no footprint, nothing for people to cry, to fear, to cling, to feel sad. Is it natural for waves of sadness to arise in people in times of death or do we cry because we fear the unknown, the journey? A master once said that "we should cry when there is birth and smile when there is death". I like that. So if I had a obituary, it might just say this:

Smile, smile to life, smile to love ones, friends, strangers, animals, the world, the sufferings, the pain, the sadness, the laughters, the bless, and the impermanence.
Heres looking at you babe ^_*